Spending time working on yourself — whether that’s in your career, personal life or simply who you are as a person — can prime you for a relationship, she says, noting that the best time to find someone is when you’re 100% content with who you are. Being with someone else won’t fill that void, no matter how great the person is, she says.
多花点时间来提高自己，无论是职业方面，个人生活，还是简简单单的自己。自我提升是维护感情的基础。当你对自己百分百满意的时候，这就是你找伴侣的最佳时机。因为和另外一个人在一起，并不会填补你自身的空白，无论这个人多厉害。
灵魂伴侣～
行有不得，
反求诸己。
花若盛开，
蝶自然来。